Welcome to the Texas Surrogate Partner website
Find out more about surrogate partners
Find out if a surrogate partner is right for you
My California colleague Emiko presenting the surrogate partner program on vimeo:
What is a surrogate partner?
We learn how to ride a bicycle by practicing, not by reading the manual or talking with experts. It's the same with relationships. A surrogate partner is a substitute partner who helps you practice being a great partner. So you can enjoy intimate relationships with confidence.
The surrogate partner process is called a triadic model because there are always three people working together - you, your therapist or coach, and your surrogate partner. Your therapist/counselor/coach supports your mind and the surrogate partner supports your body through the learning process.
See the latest from the Huffington Post: She Has Sex With Clients, But She’s Not An Escort: Meet A ‘Sex Surrogate’
Why work with a surrogate partner?
If you are longing for an intimate relationship ... If you see happy couples loving one another and wish you could have that too ...
Your instincts are right on.
The best thing you can do for your health is to love more. Social isolation and loneliness are the number one health problem in America. It turns out that loving is even better for your health than eating well or exercising. People who are lonely, depressed and isolated are 3-10 times more likely to get sick and die prematurely compared to people who have love, connection and community.
The truth is: you were born to love.
Picture yourself spending time with your partner connecting, sharing the most exciting parts of life and enjoying sexual experiences that bring joy to both of you for years afterward.
If this doesn't feel possible ... If you wouldn't know how to begin or you would be paralyzed with fear ... If you find the idea of developing an intimate partnership intimidating, have very little experience with intimacy, believe you have a sexual dysfunction, are differently-abled, are learning to be inside a newly-gendered body, or are returning from active duty in the military, the surrogate partner process might be for you.
Working with a surrogate partner gives you the opportunity to learn new skills and practice them. Socialize and date with confidence. Enter new relationships with ease. Enjoy the loving, lasting partner of your dreams.
Who made this site?
Welcome to the site, I'm River. I'm a surrogate partner in Austin, Texas and nothing makes me happier than to watch a person wake up inside! Learn more about me on the about page.
I made this site to provide information about the surrogate partner process and to give you the tools you need to explore whether the surrogate partner process is right for you.
- On the Media/Books/Organizations page find lots of information about the process.
- There is a page for my clients and a page for you if you are a therapist or coach.
- I'd love to hear from you! Use a button on the top or bottom of the page.
- At the bottom of the page, express your biggest challenge and your dream come true.